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  1. Listen to the programme about children and independence.
  2. Answer the multiple-choice questions. Choose one answer for each question. Listen again if you need to.
  3. Read the transcript at the end of the page. It contains some mistakes. Listen again, find the mistakes and correct them.

Read the transcript and spot the mistakes.

P = Presenter A = Anna B = Ben C = Claire

P: Welcome to Have Your Say. Today we’re asking: when are children ready for more independence? Anna, you’re our first caller.

A: My fifteen-year-old son wants an e-bike. But the one he’s shown me is really an electric motorbike. Some boys round here ride them dangerously, and he wants to join them.

P: Wouldn’t it be fairer to judge him on his own behaviour?

A: The thing is, he takes risks when he’s with his friends. My biggest concern is that he’ll try to impress them.

P: So what you’re saying is you’re more worried about his friends’ influence than the bike itself?

A: Exactly. The main problem is how they behave together.

P: Have you thought about suggesting an ordinary mountain bike instead?

A: So, in other words, I should offer him an alternative?

P: Exactly. Something you’d feel comfortable letting him ride. Ben, you’re next.

B: My nine-year-old daughter wants a smartphone. She says everyone else has one.

P: And what do you think?

B: One advantage is that she could contact me after school. But I’m worried she’d spend all evening on it.

P: I gather your point is that you want her to be able to contact you, but you don’t want her constantly on a screen?

B: That’s right.

P: Don’t you think a basic phone would make more sense? What matters most is that she can reach you.

B: If I’ve got it right, you’re suggesting a phone just for calls and texts?

P: Exactly. Surely you can agree to a phone without agreeing to games and group chats?

B: That’s a useful way of putting it.

P: Finally, Claire. What’s your question?

C: My sixteen-year-old wants to go camping in the Highlands with three friends and no adults.

P: Have they been camping before?

C: Only with us. The best thing about it is that they’d learn to look after themselves. But they haven’t planned a route yet.

P: Wouldn’t it be better to ask them for a proper plan first? Where they’ll stay and what they’ll do if the weather changes.

C: The thing is, they think planning spoils the adventure.

P: You need to bear in mind that enthusiasm isn’t preparation. Isn’t it important for them to show they can take responsibility?

C: So what you’re getting at is that they need to earn that independence?

P: Exactly. A sensible plan would be a good start.

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